I wanted to share this:

Barbara Coloroso wrote in her book, Kids are Worth It, something I completely agree with and wanted to share with you:

"If you want your kids to make wise choices, give them the opportunity to make lots of choices - including some unwise ones. Unless the unwise ones are life-threatening, morally threatening, or unhealthy (in which case you have to intervene), allow them to experience the real-world consequences of their own mistakes and poor choices, as painful as they may be.

When they fall, don't be standing in front of them to rescue, or over them to punish. Be behind them to support and guide them. Give them the six critical life messages: I believe in you...I trust you...I know you can handle this...you are listened to...you are cared for...and you are very important to me." ~ Barbara Coloroso pg 241 of Kids Are Worth It.

enjoy every day,

...transParent...

An image like this one comes to mind when I think about parenting issues.

There's the portion above the surface that is obvious to all.

Then there's the portion below the surface....THAT'S the incredible part.

Working with parents who are courageous and willing to be "transParent" is so powerful. When parents are honest, clear, and willing to look at their entire situation...above and below the surface...positive changes occur. It's not always comfortable being transParent; yet it is so worth it!!

Our parenting discussion groups will start back up in September.

In the meantime, I am right here if you need me!